[13/10/2009-Updated with one new perspective.]
[Briefing]
Notwithstanding our eye is open, but is actually blind like the ostrich. Human beings always compromise with what we have seen, justify what we had thought, simply because not many of us have the courage to admit that WE ARE STUPID. Example, there are so many people out there desire to learn the theory and principle of a rich successful businessman, and if you ask them “what attitudes drives you to the path of success?” Most of their answer will be “honest, humble, determination and passionate”, and so do u believe it? In this situation, many of us will choose to believe that these factors are the prerequisite behaviour we must possess in order to become a successful businessman. Please observe properly, they are rich now, and they do have the right to tell you what to be! Have you ever thought before? These are the real attitude you must learn from them? Or merely a tactic for them to hide their dark shadow and create a good image to the public? (This will be another topic, not discussing here.) Open your eye, take your head out from the sand, and observe the realistic, from this moment on.
Hopefully the “Starter” has relieved your appetite last week and now let’s come to the real “Main Course.” Before commencing, it is essential to mention that this post DO NOT apply to whom I seen them as:
1) My family member.
2) The people who I choose to be my real friend.
3) The people who I like.
4) All the Girls.
5) And to all Libra babies.
It is written in the way of a specific point with different perspective in 17, 21, and 25 years old respectively. Considering my time limit and workload per day, I’m only be able to share 10 points in this current post, but I suppose it is more than enough for you to consume quite a long time to think, analyse, observe, and take action to prove its feasibility in your real life.
Read properly for every sentence, do not rush, and keep it slow. Right after finish one point, stop a while, revised again and contrast with your current perspective. Lastly, enjoy your lovely weekend.
Here you Go...
[Main Course]
17: “What is right, what is wrong?”
21: “There is no right or wrong, but thinking makes it so. Everyone have their own interest to protect with, and so neither existed.”
25: “Let me tell you all something, all the above are bullshit! As long as I’m richer than you, whatever shits I said are ALL RIGHT!! YES, all the shits!” (This is a special message to those arrogant people who thought that they are so smart, nevertheless still driving a stupid small car!)
17: “Humble and lay low yourself is always the proper attitude when interact or communicate with the other people.”
21: “If you do not know how to grasp the opportunity to make yourself more apparent in an organization. Congratz to you! Your whole life will sit there and wait eat shit.”
25: “To me, either Arrogant or Humble both are simply a tactic or method to be exploited. Arrogant to the certain extent may have its strength to show your self-confident in order to cheer up your team, this would be deemed as the prerequisite behaviour of a team leader. Contrary Humble is actually a tactic to lay low yourself when your rival still hiding in the darkness or you need to sabotage the person in a sudden. Therefore Humble is not an ethic but a tactic you should learn. How to control these two attitudes in a body? This would depend on your real life experience and the level of apperception.”
17: “Teacher and Mummy teach me must be kind and helpful always, and so I must not let them down. I must try to help more people when they in need.”
21: “Don’t let this sentence “Should you contribute more of your kindness, you may have good return at the end (hou sam yao hou bou)” obsessing you. This is simply a tactic used by a beggar to beg money on the street. What I been through in the realistic life, almost all the kind-hearted people may not have good consequence, either die or bankrupt earlier.”
25: “As long as I’m rich, I’m the one who choose to be benevolent to you OR not to. You have no right to begging me for a chance. Either you, he, she, they must help me in the 1st place before asking me for the help, otherwise I don’t give a fucking care.”
17: “I’m scare of ghost especially sleep in darkness alone. Even some cold air flow behind my back, I might suspect a ghost stand right behind me?!?!”
21: “Ghost?! Sorry, I can even walk alone in the dark now. If they do appear in front of me, I surely no feel at all, simply because at this moment the only thing that can put me in fear is those sophisticated astute people.”
25: “Just to let the whole world know, right after the torturous experience that happened in my real life, I had lost all the emotion that an ordinary human has. To be frank, don’t make silly threatening or tricky tactic in front of me, observing towards one person very quick within few minutes of conversation is just like a piece of cake to me, that will only make me think that you are insulting your own wisdom. As even “fear” no longer contain in my cells now! I guarantee the 2 objects mentioned above, it is your turn to fear on me now!
17: “Why so many people discriminate black people one? Why can’t everyone stay peacefully together in this society? They are not wrong with black skin!”
21: “Now I know why so many people hate black skin people. They really cause a lot of problem and definitely a parasite in this society. However, as long as they are not bringing harm to my interest, I would like to be their friend meanwhile fully utilise their privilege in the field of business.”
25: “PUKIMAK, You this Ixxxan and Mxxxy Mother fucker! Babi dan lembu betul hang semua! 10 of my bad luck incidents, 9 of you sure involved! Try to speak in gentle way, “Genetic of Mxxxy and Ixxxan merely the compilation of Bastard and Son of bitch!” I’m proud not to have a good friend with black skin! and I will make you all as my slave!SOON!
17: “We must act within the ethic, so that we will be respected by everyone.”
21: “Ethic merely an excuse used by the poor people or coward. Learn this word, all the kiddo –“Doesn’t matter you are black cat or white cat, as long as you are able to catch the rat, you are good cat.”
25: “Doesn’t matter it is black money or white money, as long as the money in my pocket, it is all MY money.”
17: “Can’t stand to see the beggar ask for money, will donate some to those handicapped people. And blaming my dad by questioning him: “Papa, why don’t you donate him some money? Just few cents probably might save his life. Why?”
21: “Discovered the motive behind those charity events and the real intention of a charity master. To be frank, all are for profitable purposes. Eventually understand why my dad can be so cruel to those beggar and handicapped people.”
25: “Promise myself to become a charity master one day and so I would rather sacrifice one beggar’s life now in order to save more people in the future. Therefore I will not donate a single cent to anybody from now on. Instead saving all those money and prepare for the business, wishing myself can be a rich one day, so that I can help more people.”
17: “I must not let the environment to change me BUT I’m the one who to change the environment!”
21: “Due to series of events, I raise the white flag and surrender to my own childish thought! Simply because no one is able to fight with the fate and environment. Once they appear to change you, you have no way to escape inevitably.
25: “Eventually understand one true fact – You must be changed by the environment before you can have such powerful strength to fight and change the environment. Don’t play with this strength! That is the most powerful weapon ever!” (Fictionally, it makes me feel like I had been swallowed by the environment to a different abstract space and accidentally learnt some special skill. Finally I finished learnt it and walk out from that space, possessing with a powerful weapon within.)
17: “According to the theory in Art of War by Sun Tzu, “Don’t put the man at your side if you suspect him; don’t suspect the man should you put him with you.” This is very cool philosophy which I would like to apply in my ground of social.”
21: “Unsure to this theory, as everyone that I trusted will because of protecting their own interest ended up sacrifice and devastate my whole plan; OR probably the theory is correct, merely I do not have a good observation towards human being and so I trusted the wrong people? So Confusing.”
25: “Excuse me, Art of War by Sun Tzu! Please throw this book into the bin and study the Art of RealLife War Theory by Xeno: “Should you suspect the man, put him together and work with you! AND Suspect the man if he is working together with you.”
17: “Do not worry, if something happen, I will ask my dad to hire a lawyer to sue him.”
21: “How come all the problems I confronted with, always not be able to settle by law? Notwithstanding it is so apparent that the trouble maker has indeed infringed the law!”
25: “The real capable man utilised the loophole of the law but not obeying them. Feel so funny when look at so many people seems like a “robot” unknowingly controlled by the government with their law. Meanwhile, glad to see so many “robot” created everyday by government which might be helpful to me in the field of business. I really have to say 100 times thanks to government! (Wondering why so many people keep on blaming and reprimand the government? hahaha! pathetic! Real pathetic! Enjoy whole life blaming bahhh!)”
17: “In what measure we must have in order to achieve what we interpret as a successful businessman?”
21: “A successful businessman must working hard and working smart in order to achieve their goal!”
25: “(Beyond the elaboration) In the eye of a successful rich man, they will not possessing with any soul, and work without pride, no “working hard” exists. These are all simply an obligation for them and they enjoy it even though in the eye of an ordinary man it is very hard work, stupid work, lowest profile work.”
17: “Why everyone conceiving that Fairness and equality never exist in this world?Whatever......as long as I'm here, I believe that I'm capable to make it happens.”
21: “We are living in world of unfairness,even though in the win-win situation, there must be one side getting lesser than the other. And if you are poor,incapable, and without any value being exploited, you deserved to be discriminated. Therefore, there are no fairness and equality exist!What we can do is to accept all the unfairness treatment and living with it.”
25: “Oppppssss..sorry!I got myself wrong. YES,indeed,we are living in the world of unfairness BUT Fairness and equality are actually EXIST!!! However They only appear in one specific situation --- when you become rich. Simply because Fairness and equality are the game of rich people. They determine the meaning of fairness, neither you nor me have the privilege to give its meaning. However you have plenty choices...either you take his "fairness" and live with it or leave it. Leave it and continue to stay in your Wonderland OR Leave it to create your OWN FAIRNESS world.Pick your choice, That's it. Simple! Once you pick it,no more complaining.
End of the Maincourse.]
Perhaps, the entire points written above unlike those Life Principle which always “blow water” or crapped by those inexperience teenager or aunty uncle sit in coffee shop, talk like doesn’t need to pay for the cost. They are all my personal real life war experience, and speak beyond my deeply wound. Therefore you have no right to doubt it, to debate it, to question it, because it is real, it happens and happened. The only thing you have the right to do so --- That is to believe it.
Come until this point, I really can’t continue anymore as I’m facing some big trouble in this current month which needed to sort out as quick as possible, otherwise I will see you all in Malaysia next few months later and declaring MISSION FAIL! By the way, Humans are born to solve problem, find no surprise my life full of trouble every day, however just wishing more luck may accompany with me.
Hopefully I still can continue with the Blog in October. Bye, c ya everyone!
